1. COMPARISON
You must never forget that you are unique and specially designed by God. We cant compare an apple to an orange because we are aware of their uniqueness and distinct features. So why do we compare ourselves with others?
Comparison crushes your inner fan and leaves you feeling worse than you deserve to feel.
I get tempted to compare myself with other people. Just when the temptation comes, I remind myself that I am a special woman on a distinct destiny path.
Sometimes, you should just slap yourself off the comparison theater. It crushes the way you feel about yourself.
2. POOR PERFORMANCE REPLAY
It is deadly to keep replaying moments when you failed.
Play back of failed moments crushes the human soul more than anything else. When those memories come, your soul seeks for where to hide but finds none.
Stop the torment. You are not the only person in the world who failed at something.
Whether you had a failed relationship, marriage, job, ministry, career or investment, It is not enough to crush yourself by yourself!
Stop that movie NOW!!!
3. CRITICISM VOICE OVERS
No one has a life where people said nice things about them all through. At one point or the other, someone is bound to say something out-rightly nasty or meaning-well-fully hurting. However, it is our responsibility to pick out the correction and filter off the harsh tones with which they said whatever.
Don't let those voices make you go mad.
Stop letting people's harsh words rent space for free in your memory!!!
4. SELF PITY
The terrible feeling of sorrow because you think life or someone has treated you worse than you deserve.
It's natural to get tempted by self esteem but it is absurd to let it take over you.
Self pity makes you feel worse than you are. In fact, it shows your life to you through a false lens.
Self pity never gives room for your mind to objectively view and handle issues.
Call of the pity party and break the glasses holding your pity tears.
5. ENVY
Envy is often a product of comparison. You take out time to see what others have that you don't have and you grow a green bile over it.
Envy puts up the other person and places you below them. Soon you find yourself striving to be like them or out-perform them. This leaves you hopeless and low placed because there is hardly any chance of success on your attempt to become like them.
Toss out that poison, darling. See the post on dealing with the green bile.
6. PRAYERLESSNESS
When a challenge hits you, what do you do? Call a friend or hit the room to cry out your eyes and curse God? Rather than murmur and keep struggling with that challenge why not pray? Yes pray to God, in the name of Jesus Christ and He will help fix the issue.
Prayerlessness leaves you feeling clueless and messed up on the inside. This in turn crushes your self esteem after a while.
7. DISORGANIZATION
Do you live the space at home, work or bedroom disorganized? A disorganized environment sends subtle messages to your minds that says "I am terrible".
Its only a matter of time before your self esteem feels crushed.
Have you got off bed and felt horrible for no reason? Or you got to the office and just felt so bad over nothing in particular? Check the placement of things around you.
Schedule your day, keep a TO-DO list often and follow through.
I'm quite a busy person. I run a ministry with 8 sub ministries and diverse activities beneath. I work full time on a paid job, I am very involved in my local church as a youth pastor, I'm currently writing 2 books. The only reason I'm able to sit down and post this to help you, is because I HAVE A TO-DO LIST.
Organize your life, darling!!
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